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MS: Counselor: Mrs. Smith

Love and Logic

by Annie Smith

March 06, 2008

"No significant learning occurs without a significant relationship!"

-James Comer-

Would you like to learn more on setting good firm limits?  

Would you like for your child/adolescent to respect your authority?  

       Love and Logic is a helpful tool that may provide the answers your looking for.  Love and Logic provides simple and practical techniques to help teachers and parents have less stress and more fun while raising responsible kids. Please find this tip provided by Love and Logic useful, as it provides techniques that you can begin experimenting with immediately. To learn more about the philosophy of Love and Logic please visit their website at www.loveandlogic.com.

Some Thoughts on Video and Computer Games

Over the past two decades, video and computer games have become dramatically more fast-paced, realistic, and stimulating. Not long after their introduction, I began to suspect that these games had the same addictive potential as drugs, alcohol, and gambling. Today, family therapists and researchers have confirmed my fears. Listed below are some tips for helping your child avoid getting hooked:

  • Don't allow your child to have a computer in their room.
  • Allow them to play these games no longer than thirty minutes per day.
  • If your child becomes sneaky, noncompliant, or defiant about this time limit, remove this privilege.
  • Children birth to six should spend no time playing these games, watching videos, or viewing television.
  • So-called "educational" games, videos, and shows are no substitute for real-life learning activities, involving movement, problem-solving, and human relationships.

For more information, read Love and Logic Magic: When Kids Leave You Speechless. You'll find plenty of practical strategies and the actual words to use with your kids.

Thanks for reading.


Dr. Charles Fay

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